Comes with anal sex some preparation: First, mental for those who are initiated, but also hygienic. Of course, we take a shower and make sure the area is “spick and span”, but some go further by performing an anal shower. What is it? Experts demystify the practice of best anal douches. Bespoke Surgical tells that great anal hygiene is important.

No, it’s not just about putting the shower head on the area for a few seconds. To precede, a tool, an anal shower, is necessary in order to clean the inside of the rectum. The goal: to free him from any stool residues so as not to give off an unpleasant odor or leave a deposit on the partner’s limb during or after the leg part in the air.

Dangerous for your health

If no study has yet been done on the dangerousness of the process, the gastroenterologist and the sexologist say that a mild enema of the area carries no risk. However, repeated or too strong showers can cause tears or fissures in the anus in the long run.

It can also interfere with the normal functioning of the glands, causing itching, dryness and discomfort. Internally, the introduction of water jets in the rectum can also traumatize the skin and, if they are too vigorous, it can perforate the rectum. It’s rare, but it can happen.

People really use anything. It may be appropriate to take a neutral liquid of distilled water. But the shower can hardly be neutral. The water is not neutral; it contains plenty of minerals, so it sure has effects on the anal mucosa. When we insert a foreign body in our body, it is sure that ‘he reacts. Unfortunately, there are not enough studies to tell us how.

The water inserted into the rectum, one of the main channels of the digestive system, however, would not affect digestion, according to expert. Food breaks down in the stomach and duodenum. They are absorbed into the small intestine, and then the colon concentrates the stools by storing and eliminating them. The rectum simply plays the role of expulsion of excrement, so no danger of affecting stool elimination in there inserting liquid. Contrary to what some might think no laxative effect, diarrhea or constipation in the program.

On the sexual health side, there is still no evidence that the practice is more exposing to sexually transmitted infections, but a study from the Department of Epidemiology pointed to the fact that people doing anal sex. Basically, there is a greater risk of getting STBBIs, including HIV, and rectal douche could contribute significantly to transmission. However, if people have healthy sexual practices, they protect themselves; professionals do not see why a little water in the rectum could increase the risk of transmission.

The practice is still marginal and the health impacts poorly documented and known to the medical community. The proof: the Association of Gastroenterologists, the Federation of General Practitioners and even the clinic specialized in sexual health refused to pronounce on the anal shower, pleading to have no expert on the topic.

Just for gay?

Contrary to popular belief, it is not just homosexuals who use the rectal douche, but all the people indulging in anal penetration. According to research, however, a prevalence of men doing anal sex has already showered: 70% vs. 32% of women.

How to do?

The apparatus consists of a pear equipped with a reservoir and a stem which, if it is inserted in the anus. It’s really similar to a vaginal shower that some use elsewhere also to clean their posterior.

According to the instructions of the famous sexologists, just fill the bulb with lukewarm water, lubricate the stem to facilitate penetration and then inject the amount of water that makes you comfortable. It is advisable to keep the water inside for a few seconds and then to evacuate it on the toilet. It is recommended to start again until the water comes out clear.

The web star insists: it is very important to ensure that the water is completely out, even if you want to stay a few more minutes on the throne, to avoid damage in bed. Anal showers or rectal pears are on sale online, in erotic shops or pharmacies.

The enema is a tribal practice, which one must not be disgusted. It is the poetics of the bowels, the metaphysics of the membranes. We play with his poop, where it’s poop, animal regression and brutal mentally beyond consciousness and propriety. The enema consists of introducing a liquid through the anus, into the rectum and into the colon. It aims to facilitate the evacuation of solids from the intestine. He now succeeds the clysters which also designated, until the nineteenth century, the syringe used to inject the liquid. Nothing prepares and relaxes better than a good enema. Apart from the hygienic and practical aspect, they can also constitute for some real preliminary that can be exciting. The sensation caused by an enema is very strange; it can be close to diarrhea and cause minor spasms. It gives the feeling of being full.

It often puts you in touch with shit, because even if the partner does an enema before, it sometimes remains a little dirty and messy. When he gives himself to your hand, he-she knowingly renounces that form of dignity that consists of hiding to defecate. Shame sometimes mixes with pleasure, an aphrodisiac cocktail. And the pleasure of being fisted doubles the pleasure of having exceeded the limit of good taste. Since you are little, you are told that poo is “poo”.

You grow up with the idea that your body produces toxic, dangerous, harmful things that smell and are disgusting. And when you make love, you learn to reconcile yourself with this “shit bag” that is your body; because the person who “fancies” you does it by taking pleasure and giving you love. This body becomes the battlefield of contradictory feelings that are resolved by victory: if you enjoy, it does not matter that your buttocks are smeared like the hands of your partner, if you enjoy it is that there is way to transform the shit in gold. The fist comes from alchemy. It’s a work with sexual black.

Depending on the amount of liquid injected, one feels a very particular impression of “invasion” and “filling”. Holding back is also very enjoyable.

Better not to do this cleaning too much-too often. This damages the intestinal flora. This is not good for health and will cause intestinal disorders. To remedy this in part, you can eat yogurt and take pro-biotic. The water destroys a part of the flora, but it reconstitutes quickly.

The first ablutions are laborious; we cannot always be clean. We progress with experience and each body has its peculiarities that it is to learn. It should be noted that enemas do not deform organs and are not dangerous to health. First, clean the equipment with a disinfectant to prevent all bacteria and STIs. Enemas are not dangerous if some rules are respected. Do not over-force the capacity. After each session and each partner, the material should be cleaned by soaking it in 10% bleach solution for 10 minutes. Then let it dry.

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What does a dildo feel like? That is a question that many people do not know much about the subject. Dildos can be used with harnesses, so you can imagine the variety of things you can do and feel right? For many women, practicing sex with a dildo is not only a way to feel new sensations, but also to provide them to your partner.

Intense orgasms with a dildo with harness

Sex should not only focus on one’s orgasm. Do not forget to please the other person. Some people prefer to receive instead of giving and others prefer to give instead of receiving. Perfect. It is impressive to look at the lover’s eyes and notice how he is “suffering” an intense pleasure. For some women, that’s all they want from sex: knowing that their partner is satisfied. The greatest pleasure that can be obtained is that of the pleased couple.

That does not mean that women cannot experience physical pleasure when wearing a harnessed dildo. Depending on how hot, the position of the dildo and the shape, the girl who is wearing the harness can get different orgasms in not too long. Friction from the base of the dildo or strap can produce the proper stimulation for a woman to achieve orgasm.

The anatomy of each woman is different, so you have to use different levels of friction, pressure and vibration to experience orgasm. Some harnesses are designed with parts specially designed for this purpose.

The harnessed dildo can be used on zonked men wearing chastity devices.

Tips for using a harnessed dildo correctly

To achieve maximum pleasure during sex with a harnessed dildo, it is very important to take into account some recommendations both when choosing this device and when using it as a couple. Take note of the following tips and do not hesitate to put them into practice:

There are many types of harnessed dildos, but it is important to choose one that has a good grip. To do this, the wider the straps are, the more support they will offer. Discard those that are too thin.

Another fundamental aspect is that the harness is of a comfortable, safe and reliable material. Leather belts are a very good option, as they are more comfortable than, for example, plastic or silicone.

The dildos can be vibration or not, but if it costs you enough to reach orgasm , those that incorporate vibration can be a very good option for you.

There are harnesses in which you can incorporate different dildos, so these are very suitable for a future power several and try with different size, texture or shape dildos.

The harnesses with adjustable closure will allow you to adjust it much better to your body, since it is quite complicated to find one that is of your same size. In this way, if you have an adjustable closure, you can adapt it to your body without problem.

 At the time of using a harnessed dildo, it is important that both before and after sex, clean the dildo very well with water and neutral soap.

 And to increase pleasurable sensations, especially in the case of anal sex, nothing better than using an intimate lubricant based on water.

If normal-sized dildos seem boring and do not satisfy your sexual expectations, it’s time for you to switch to giant dildos.

These are from 20 centimeters and many are inspired by well-known porn actors to reproduce every detail of their penis, and even with harnesses, as we have seen in. It will not be difficult to see your fantasies fulfilled in a much more complete and hardening way.

Why choose a large size dildo?

There are a variety of large dildos and vibrators. In addition to those who imitate actors, we also find dildos that swell thanks to a small external pump so that the largest size is achieved once the penetration has begun.With these types of dildos it is much easier to leave the lonely masturbation, to enjoy sex more fun couple.

The control that produces the vibration or that inflates the dildo can be handled by the couple to surprise their beloved with the most unexpected jolts of pleasure. In addition, there are not only giant traditional dildos; we also find others with double function for anus and vagina or with double penis to penetrate two people at the same time. The possibilities are inexhaustible.

Steps for the use of a big dildo

Using a large dildo is not very different from using a normal dildo, but it does require a series of small tips to help you enjoy the experience.Apply lubricant on the dildo abundantly. Although it is not a real penis, it is very important to lubricate the area and complement the body’s natural fluids; especially in areas such as the year in which there is no own lubrication. In addition, being a large dildo, the first time can be somewhat uncomfortable and the lubricant will help prevent possible discomfort.

Feel its touch and size throughout your body. You can caress different parts of your anatomy with it and emphasize the most sensitive areas such as the clitoris or the mouth. When you get used to its size in other areas of the body, it is easier to introduce it into your vagina later, given that trust work has already begun.

Search for a progressive penetration. The dildos can be for vagina or anus, although the latter usually have a stopper or a wider end that prevents it from being absorbed. The important thing is not to try to enter everything in the first penetration or you may not be prepared for its large size. Better to try it little by little and find the rhythm and position that allows you to enjoy the most. Once you have it, the sensations will not stop growing.

It stimulates the clitoris, the anus and other sensitive points at the same time. Every sexual relationship requires that your body feel totally satiated and, therefore, while using the dildo, you can rub other parts to reach orgasm.   With dildos with double stimulation this task will be much simpler and, if not, look for a bed partner to do the work for you.

As in any other dildo, do not forget that the cleaning of the toy is essential to preserve its properties and not be attacked by different bacteria.

With these steps and other data we have mentioned, we hope you are already looking for your next big size dildo.

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