Afraid of using a dildo: Find the solutions


What does a dildo feel like? That is a question that many people do not know much about the subject. Dildos can be used with harnesses, so you can imagine the variety of things you can do and feel right? For many women, practicing sex with a dildo is not only a way to feel new sensations, but also to provide them to your partner.

Intense orgasms with a dildo with harness

Sex should not only focus on one’s orgasm. Do not forget to please the other person. Some people prefer to receive instead of giving and others prefer to give instead of receiving. Perfect. It is impressive to look at the lover’s eyes and notice how he is “suffering” an intense pleasure. For some women, that’s all they want from sex: knowing that their partner is satisfied. The greatest pleasure that can be obtained is that of the pleased couple.

That does not mean that women cannot experience physical pleasure when wearing a harnessed dildo. Depending on how hot, the position of the dildo and the shape, the girl who is wearing the harness can get different orgasms in not too long. Friction from the base of the dildo or strap can produce the proper stimulation for a woman to achieve orgasm.

The anatomy of each woman is different, so you have to use different levels of friction, pressure and vibration to experience orgasm. Some harnesses are designed with parts specially designed for this purpose.

Tips for using a harnessed dildo correctly

To achieve maximum pleasure during sex with a harnessed dildo, it is very important to take into account some recommendations both when choosing this device and when using it as a couple. Take note of the following tips and do not hesitate to put them into practice:

There are many types of harnessed dildos, but it is important to choose one that has a good grip. To do this, the wider the straps are, the more support they will offer. Discard those that are too thin.

Another fundamental aspect is that the harness is of a comfortable, safe and reliable material. Leather belts are a very good option, as they are more comfortable than, for example, plastic or silicone.

The dildos can be vibration or not, but if it costs you enough to reach orgasm , those that incorporate vibration can be a very good option for you.

There are harnesses in which you can incorporate different dildos, so these are very suitable for a future power several and try with different size, texture or shape dildos.

The harnesses with adjustable closure will allow you to adjust it much better to your body, since it is quite complicated to find one that is of your same size. In this way, if you have an adjustable closure, you can adapt it to your body without problem.

 At the time of using a harnessed dildo, it is important that both before and after sex, clean the dildo very well with water and neutral soap.

 And to increase pleasurable sensations, especially in the case of anal sex, nothing better than using an intimate lubricant based on water.

If normal-sized dildos seem boring and do not satisfy your sexual expectations, it’s time for you to switch to giant dildos.

These are from 20 centimeters and many are inspired by well-known porn actors to reproduce every detail of their penis, and even with harnesses, as we have seen in. It will not be difficult to see your fantasies fulfilled in a much more complete and hardening way.

Why choose a large size dildo?

There are a variety of large dildos and vibrators. In addition to those who imitate actors, we also find dildos that swell thanks to a small external pump so that the largest size is achieved once the penetration has begun.With these types of dildos it is much easier to leave the lonely masturbation, to enjoy sex more fun couple.

The control that produces the vibration or that inflates the dildo can be handled by the couple to surprise their beloved with the most unexpected jolts of pleasure. In addition, there are not only giant traditional dildos; we also find others with double function for anus and vagina or with double penis to penetrate two people at the same time. The possibilities are inexhaustible.

Steps for the use of a big dildo

Using a large dildo is not very different from using a normal dildo, but it does require a series of small tips to help you enjoy the experience.Apply lubricant on the dildo abundantly. Although it is not a real penis, it is very important to lubricate the area and complement the body’s natural fluids; especially in areas such as the year in which there is no own lubrication. In addition, being a large dildo, the first time can be somewhat uncomfortable and the lubricant will help prevent possible discomfort.

Feel its touch and size throughout your body. You can caress different parts of your anatomy with it and emphasize the most sensitive areas such as the clitoris or the mouth. When you get used to its size in other areas of the body, it is easier to introduce it into your vagina later, given that trust work has already begun.

Search for a progressive penetration. The dildos can be for vagina or anus, although the latter usually have a stopper or a wider end that prevents it from being absorbed. The important thing is not to try to enter everything in the first penetration or you may not be prepared for its large size. Better to try it little by little and find the rhythm and position that allows you to enjoy the most. Once you have it, the sensations will not stop growing.

It stimulates the clitoris, the anus and other sensitive points at the same time. Every sexual relationship requires that your body feel totally satiated and, therefore, while using the dildo, you can rub other parts to reach orgasm.   With dildos with double stimulation this task will be much simpler and, if not, look for a bed partner to do the work for you.

As in any other dildo, do not forget that the cleaning of the toy is essential to preserve its properties and not be attacked by different bacteria.

With these steps and other data we have mentioned, we hope you are already looking for your next big size dildo.